Buyer complains about shipping after listing ends.
Here's an exchange with a buyer who bought an item with $90 shipping in the listing who complained about shipping minutes after the listing ended.
I had a large backyard train on eBay and the buyer immediately sent me a message about shipping after it ended. :
Could you please double check on lowest/slowest shipping service/cost and let me know if it’s lower than $90?
I immediately raised the shipping cost to $900 and told him to go play games with someone else. He replied with:
Excuse me????? I respectfully asked a fair question about shipping and insurance. I don’t understand your reaction. I won the auction, would like to pay a fair shipping price if you’ll cooperate. What do you say....
I replied to that message as below:
Shipping was clearly shown in the listing, but you think you can whine and beg to get a discount. No. I don't want to play. No response to this message is required. Go away.
He replied:
Wow....what in the world has you so angry. Whatever it is, I’m sorry for that.
As for submitting the winning bid on your loco and tender, I clearly saw the $90 shipping. I felt it was a fair question to ask you to check on that shipping price as my experience shows that $90 is at least twice what actual shipping could be. But if you want to treat shipping as an extra profit center that’s certainly your prerogative. And it’s my responsibility to pay the $90 that was shown in the auction.
Please send an invoice with $90 shipping, not $900. Will you please include insurance? I’ll send payment through as soon as I get the invoice.
I never responded to the message above or any of his future messages.
About an hour later I got a call from a toll free number. It was a woman with an Indian accent calling on eBay. She was calling on behalf of a buyer who was having trouble working out the deal with me.
When she mentioned the buyer's name I recognized him as the loco buyer from earlier. I told her I wasn't interested in solving the problem with the buyer because I refused to deal with extortionists and then said I was going to hang up. She said, “Okay, have a good night” and we both hung up.
A few minutes later I got this message from eBay:
Good day! One of your buyers contacted "giacomo6" us today asking for your response for the item that he committed to buy from an auction. This is for the item name " NAME REMOVED ". ( ########### ) Your buyer was asking for the shipping cost for $90.00 but you provided him an invoice for the shipping cost of $900.00. Hopefully, you can keep in touch with your trading partner soon.
I sold the train to the second place bidder. For 10 less. It cost me $86.00 to ship to a slightly closer address. Meaning $90 was not an outrageous shipping charge.
One thing I should mention is this is a very desirable loco. There are others listed on eBay for prices between $900 and 1600, but they don't seem to sell often for the higher prices. I bought it with the assumption that it was a $500 loco and was happy to get $515 that for it.
I also looked at the feedback this yahoo left for sellers. About 25% of the feedback he leaves as a buyer has comments like “Seller resolved problem with generous refund.” and “seller provided refund.” Here's a nice one. . . “Seller graciously issued refund!”
I can be gracious, but not to extortionists.
Here's a message from him a day later:
The closed auction page that verifies I submitted the winning bid states that shipping is $90. Your invoice shows shipping at $900. Please correct the invoice to reflect the shipping charge of $90 that was listed in the auction. Once I receive the corrected invoice I’ll process a payment of $611.00.
For the next few days I received daily, and sometimes twice daily, messages similar to the one above.
A non-paying bidder case was opened against the buyer automatically after 4 days without payment. This didn't seem to have an effect on his many messages, but did get him to contact eBay again. That resulted in eBay sending me a message:
Hello seller,
Thank you for selling here on eBay. We are contacting you in regards to the auction that was won by giacomo6. This is the " NAME REMOVED ". ( ########### ). There is some discrepancy on the shipping cost because in your listing it says $90 however in the buyer's invoice it is $900. Please have this one fixed.
We are hoping for your kind consideration.
Thanks,
eBay
I ignored the message, the nonpaying bidder case closed without him paying, and, more importantly, I avoided any after the sale problems with this bum.
In this case I had to ignore a stream of messages from the first buyer, and I got $10 less for the loco. But the second buyer gladly bought the loco and did not complain about anything.
Now I might seem harsh here, but I certainly don't want to put myself in the position of either being out $180 in round trip shipping costs or giving this yahoo a partial refund because that's how he does business.
This is also part of my Zero Tolerance Policy. I'm just not willing to put up with this crap anymore. I'm not willing to fight or argue, I just shut them down and move on to more respectful bidders and buyers.
There is no reason to put up with these Yahoos. There are plenty of willing, polite and grateful buyers out there.